She is a character, very soft hearted but has a stiff upper lip too, which I inherited, if anything bad happens its "take it as it comes and get on with it". Fortunately she only lives 2 miles from me so I can visit to help out. Yesterday I was greeted with:- "I walked from the bathroom on my own", bearing in mind that she sprained her ankle badly and its about rugby ball size, as well as having plaster on her arm. What made us laugh, she was offered a walking frame by the hospital, and she told them "oh no thank you, thats for old people". She is my trialer, well its how I can give her jewellery without her trying to pay me for it. She thinks its for me to try out a new design. Gotcha.