Quick update

[bustagasket]

Thought i would just pop in to make an update for those who dont know from other sources.

After my husband left me on 19th November, things became very ugly and i have been having a pretty rough time, so i have not really been talking anywhere.

The sitation now is that the house is on the market and we have seperated our belongings and I am now prying it will sell fast as he threatens to move back in at every opportunity cos he knows i am terrified of him doing that.

Its a very long story, but lots of change afoot. My fist step has been to secure a new job, just a checkout girl at a local independent supermarket Jempson’s of Peasmarsh but at least i dont have to go to the garage and work for him each day.

I am very tired both from the strain and the new long hours with only a 30 min lunchbreak and 15 min pm break, but the staff are nice and 90% of the customers have been too.

I now pay all the bills for the house apart from the piddly mortgage (£80 per month) and so its a real strain on minimum wage. I have kinda withdrawn from all social things including online, although i have received an amazing amount of support from my online friends.

Anyway just thought i would do an update, i still pop onto the forums and have a little read, but i just find it hard to participate anywhere atm.

Have fun with all the jewellery making.

[Rustic Charm]

Thinking of you Su xxxxxx

[MuranoSilver]

Awww Sue
I'm sorry it's all less amicable now. I hope the house sells quickly so it will take the pressure off you. Huge hugs from Howard & me
So proud of you for getting the job and losing the weight & keeping it together under what must be huge strain!
Nic xx

[lorraineflee]

Sending good wishes, virtual hugs and loads of positive "hang in there" vibes!
Lorraine

[agent_44]

Ooh that looks like a lovely posh supermarket though! Hugs, as always xx

[Petal]

Aw Su, I know its really hard for you ATM, but just hang in there matey, it will all be OK in the end, I know it will.

Huge to you from me.

[Lisa Quinn]

You are spectacular Su, you have managed everything so brilliantly, well done xx

[Ominicci]

Su you are doing amazingly well in these circumstances! Thinking of you often.

[AlexandraBuckle]

Big hug from me

[bustagasket]

Thanks everyone. Off to work in a min - doing the late shift today, 1-8.15 which is gonna get very boring even though it is fewer than the normal 9 hour shift that i do. then 8-5 tomorrow and 9-6 thurs frid and sat Really must buy some black trousers instead of having to wear a skirt!