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Don't be disheartened Jules. We all go through times like that. I've had some really cr*p shows this year but I try and learn from them and move on. That's not to say I don't keep making mistakes and I know how disappointing it can be when you psyche yourself up for a show that you think will be good and it turns out to be rubbish. It's really no reflection on your work, just that you're in the wrong place. Chin up mate
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Oh, mate, you're in such good company. Sometimes all seems peachy and then everything seems to go tits up and you wonder why you bother. But, you see, that's what makes you worthwhile and what you're doing worthwhile - you care enough to get it right. The downside of that is that you'll never be good enough in your own eyes; the upside is that you'll always be improving.
For what its worth, I'm doing exactly the same as you. I'm beavering away here, quietly learning to do things properly. I make lots of scrap and sometimes I think that I have no natural aptitude at all - then I turn out something that's halfway decent and I feel good again.
I think we're so lucky (go get your sick bucket out) because this is such a wonderfully supportive community. There's no judgement and no unconstructive criticism - just honest, objective advice.
You'll be just fine
Di x
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Don't worry I think everyone feels like that from time to time. I've certainly had my 'days' in the last fews weeks where I just feel like giving up.
I nearly cried when I was setting up my first show since the wedding planning, wedding and honeymoon. A lot of my work were pieces from galleries that had shut down and given me back my stock. (Another thing i try not to get too depressed about!)
Anyway, i'd completely underestimated how dirty all my jewellery would be from being packed up for a while (and spending a while on a gallery shelf).
There was not a sparkle in sight! I was distraught! I spent the whole show polishing! But do you know what? i sold a piece that I'd had for ages and i hadn't even got round to polishing yet!
Oh and I nearly broke my website today... luckily Ben was around to help me fix it.
I'm sure there is a message in all that somewhere! I guess its just to keep your chin up cos things are never as bad as they may appear. If you are anything like me, it only takes something simple and llittle to happen to cheer up again.
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for you Jules.
Another couple of weeks and the days start getting longer again. You'll see, it makes a difference.
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Ooh hugs everyone
Two quotes from the last eBench Newsletter (they call them Quotes worth Requoting so I will...)
"There is no scarcity of opportunity to make a living at what you love to do,
there is only scarcity of resolve to make it happen." Wayne Dyer
"The only thing that stands between a man (or woman) and what he/she wants from life is often merely the will to try it and the faith to believe that it is possible." Richard M. DeVos
It is only your resolve that is scarce and your faith that has flown at the moment. Your skill and will are still there, they are just a bit dim in this winter darkness. Like George says it will all start to come back when the light does. Then it will reflect off everything else and make you shine from the inside too.
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Erm, this was meant to be in another thread, ignore me!
Last edited by agent_44; 02-12-2009 at 06:33 PM.
Lucinda
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Oh, Jules, I feel like that a lot of the time.
Personally, I think the best and most creative people are disorganised........well I will until I've tidied up.
Nicci, those quotes are spot on but how do you get yourself a big dollop of resolve? I'm afraid my favourite expression is CBA.
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