A quick visit to a shirt shop would clarify things for you Victoria and allow you to browse the cufflinks on offer. If cutting the fixed bar from sheet, it is usually tapered as in my sketch. The second fixing can be a button, a ball, or a cone shape. If using a torpedo, or cross bar, the cufflink would have to be rotated afterwards, so is more fiddly to use.
The inner distance from button to button is about 12.00mm. Dennis.
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